We generally change ourselves for one of two reasons: Inspiration or desperation.
After spending a few days in Taipei, I took a train south to Hualien, where the famous Taroko National Park is located. Since there is no public transportation inside the park, I ended up hiring a car with 5 other young travelers from my hostel and visited the park together – All 5 of them are from mainland China and are native speakers of Mandarin Chinese; although I spent my first 17 years in Hong Kong and I am natively fluent in Cantonese Chinese, I am not fluent in Mandarin Chinese. I have no problem reading or writing Chinese, but my pronunciation of Mandarin is pretty horrible. Despite traveling with some very nice people who always included me in their conversations, due to the accent and how fast they spoke I was only able to understand roughly 30% of that they said – A fairly miserable percentage compared to my previous engagements of Mandarin conversations. To be honest, I was a little embarrassed.
I wanted to challenge myself and to improve my Mandarin Chinese. Specifically, I desperately needed to be able to pronounce correctly some of the most commonly-used phrases that I use everyday. I realized that this could not be done by just talking to people, as during normal conversations people generally don’t correct you even if you say it wrong. So I came up with a game plan: My goal was to be able to correctly pronounce 100 phrases in Mandarin (those that I previously mispronounced) before I leave Taiwan in 3 days – Instead of traveling to Kenting in Southern Taiwan for diving, I decided to head back north to Taipei and focus on spending the next 3 days practicing those 100 phrases.
Today is Day 3 of the challenge and the progress has been satisfactory. Although I am by no means a fluent Mandarin speaker, I am now 100 phrases better than before and that is really all I care about at this point.